Sunday, September 03, 2006

Packing up the relationship

In a box, the symbol of love in red and gold. In my mind, all I see is a heart I couldn't hold. In a bag is sexy in a box, in a bottle, and a bit of lace and again, I see a heart I couldn't hold. In the closet, far away, a monkey who kept watch over the owner of the heart I couldn't hold. Its fur still smelling of his skin.

I packed all this in the grocery sack he packed my things in. I gathered my courage and my strength, and said I can't have this anymore. It just reminds me of him and I need to move on from him. I went to his place. My stomach lurched before I even entered the elevator. My own up and down movement without the ride. The door was ajar at his place, I knocked, heard nothing, and entered. He was not there, the apartment empty of life, but not of things. Stilly filled with so many things. A man who thinks he can buy happiness, but finds that with each purchase all he did was bring home another burden. He enters the apartment with laundry soap and a denim shirt in his lap.

I come out from the bedroom at the sound of his voice, my own chipper as I say hello back. Andrew looks wonderful. I've always found him so attractive and handsome. I tell him why I came. To give back the things he gave me, all accept two items I chose to keep. His shoulders hunch, his face drops, and he is sad. I pick up the bag handles and announce I'll take it back home. He says that he wouldn't have given it to me if he didn't want me to have it. I replied that it's just to hard to have around, that it reminds me of him. He brings up how I said we can't be friends, that I was the one who said we can't be friends. I ask him what that has to do with giving back his things. He said nothing, just that I said that. I told him I stand by what I said, that I can't be his friend because it's too hard. We stand there longer, he put his arm out, reaching to hug me. I go to him, he embraces me.

I want to tell him he smells good, his cologne wafting up as we touch. We let go and I cry. I turn away from his to compose myself and to wipe the tears away. My hands smell of his cologne. He puts his hand on my arm, a comforting gesture. He looks at me, I look at him and time passes.

We kiss. Deep and long. His hand holds the back of my head against his lips. We kiss. Finally, we extract ourselves and become two again. I leave, my lip raw from rubbing against his mustache. As soon as I see him, my body responds. I went home with a bag of his stuff in my car.

4 comments:

changapeluda said...

Alison Anders (this chick writer/director I really like and aspire to be like) said that you should fall in love madly and completely, even hopelessly so that even if the relationship falls through, you'll have something to write about.

And as for that bag of love tokens you've got there, I say Let it remind you of him, So What! .... remember him fondly, smile, re-live a good kiss (just like that one you described :)
and then go on wit your bad self.

changapeluda said...

I had a man (who I loved for 6 years!)who would give me building materials. Swear to God, Double arched doors...rough wood from a timber co. that went out of business....dry wall. A beautiful 8ft X 5ft arched mirror that he cut himself...(he got it from a dance studio re-model)

So I would need a dumptruck to take all his stuff back!

changapeluda said...

Plus, that ex-love of my life lives in Hawaii! Shoot, I'd need a barge or at least some kind of cargo ship :)

cdoc said...

One, GREAT writing. And two, I agree, keep his things. But if they are still to hard to look at, put them in a shoebox, that is what I always did. Under your bed, in your closet, out of sight so it doesn't hurt, but able to be pulled out when you want to remember. Maybe that kiss was a goodbye kiss. Maybe it was needed. I hope you can move on from this, but hold the memories dear. Memories will never hurt you and are the best thing to have.